Monday, May 13, 2024

Not able to practice meditation regularly?

 Do you know the real reason for not practicing meditation regularly?

 

Long ago, as I was trying to understand meditation, I came across different methods of doing meditation.

Each time I used to be ‘gung ho’ about the technique and speak about it relentlessly with whoever was ready to listen!

Soon lethargy sets in and nothing happens till I find some other interesting way of meditation.

I suspected the following are the real reasons for irregular practice;

1. Lack of time – If you are 30+, married, having  kid(s), building up a career, you know what it means. Absolutely there is no time for anything leave alone meditation!

2. Distractions and disruptions – Too many thoughts about future career progression, family matters and past mistakes won’t allow doing meditation regularly.

3. No proper guidance/support – Even when there is support/guidance, the information overload creates confusion!

4. Physical discomfort – Somehow we ignore physical exercise and try to compensate with more meditation. However, sitting in a particular posture for a long becomes unbearable putting an early stop to meditation!

You may be silently nodding your head and thinking these are reasons for me too.

But I was totally wrong!

The real reason is –

Meditation is a process of subtraction. It systematically strips down one to his/her bare essential nature!

Meditation dissolves all the mental structures, ideas, beliefs, opinions, and thoughts.

That’s why many people stop meditation at some point.

Meditation demands the utmost courage to wade into the unknown mind and just lose any identity one is living with.

So, dropping mind is meditation. And that gives the courage to face the unknown, uncertain, and dissolving identity.

That’s the paradox of meditation.

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I guide you to derive a balance between dissolving identity and resolving real identity through micro-practices.

Nullifying the adverse effects of busyness is my business : )

 

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