Tuesday, June 9, 2026

Too Tired to Relax?

 I did a foolish thing!

Yesterday evening, after meeting a friend, I was dropped off on the way home.

From there, I had a choice.


Book a cab and reach home comfortably.

Or walk for about ten minutes to the bus stop and save nearly ₹300.


Feeling pleased with my financial wisdom, I chose the second option.

I walked to the bus stop.

And waited.

And waited.

And waited some more.


The bus finally arrived almost an hour later.

The ₹300 stayed in my pocket.

But an hour of my life had quietly slipped away.

I laughed about it later.


The next morning, I was sitting with a cup of coffee.

Nothing unusual.

No meetings.

No deadlines.

No bus to catch.

Just coffee.


As I sat there, I noticed something interesting.

𝐌𝐲 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐝𝐚𝐲.

𝐌𝐲 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐝𝐧'𝐭.

It was still travelling.

Replaying yesterday.

Calculating.

Planning.

Thinking.

Worrying.


One thought after another.

It made me wonder.

How many times do we say,

"I need to relax."


Yet, even when life gives us a quiet moment, relaxation doesn't arrive.

Not because we don't have time.

But because the mind is still carrying yesterday and rehearsing tomorrow.


Many busy professionals are not tired solely because of work.

They are tired because their minds keep working long after work is over.


The meeting ends.

The commute ends.

The day ends.


But the thinking continues.


Perhaps that is why we can sit with a cup of coffee and still feel exhausted.


At SuswasaSpace, we explore simple self-awareness practices for busy professionals.

Not to stop thoughts.

Not to force silence.

But to notice what is happening within.

Because sometimes, the moment we notice, something begins to settle by itself.


Too tired to relax?

Maybe relaxation begins with noticing.





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Monday, April 13, 2026

Don't Analyze Stillness, Experience it!

Suswasa and his friends were out on a long drive.

They stopped at a small food joint for lunch.

Had a sumptuous meal.


As they got back on the road,

everyone started talking about how delicious the food was.


And Suswasa smiled…

“While eating, did anyone think about

how metabolism works?

how neurons respond?

what happens inside the brain?”


No one did.

Because they were simply… experiencing the food.


Suswasa continued …


Lately, I see something similar with meditation.

So much effort to explain—

brain activity, alpha, beta, gamma waves…

All of it interesting.

All of it useful.

But not necessary to experience stillness.

 

Just a few moments of being still…

And something shifts.

A quiet calmness emerges.

A small space appears—

where you can actually choose your next thought.

 

Stillness is not something to analyze.

It is something to experience.

*****



 

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Monday, April 6, 2026

The last bubble of air leaving me...as if saying goodbye

 𝐈 𝐖𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐄𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐚 𝐒𝐰𝐢𝐦𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐏𝐨𝐨𝐥… 

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐃𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠.


I could almost see it -

the last bubble of air leaving me…

rising up… as if saying goodbye.


My body was exhausted.

Hands… heavy.

Legs… refusing.


And suddenly…

I snapped out of it.

I was standing.

In shallow water!


Nothing had actually happened.

Except… my thoughts.


A bit of backstory.

I had learnt swimming on my own… 30 years ago.

Practised for a few weeks… and stopped.

Now, after three decades, I got back into the pool.

For 5 days, I stayed safely in the shallow end.

On the 6th day, I thought of going to the deep end.

And that’s when it began…

Not drowning in water, but drowning in imagined consequences.

The next day, I did something different.

I went straight to the deeper end.

Got into the water.

Started swimming… along the wall.

And then someone stopped me.

“Your swimming is fine… but try this correction.”

He turned out to be a water polo athlete.

We all need thoughts.

But most of the time,

they don’t help us swim.

they pull us into

fearful… irritating… exhausting depths.

Today, just notice:

Are your thoughts helping you swim…

or convincing you that you’re drowning?


Just a small pause…

…and let a calmer thought emerge.

*****


If this resonates,

I’m offering a 15-minute session,

no gyaan, no fixing.

Just space… to come back to the surface.



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